Abortion after rape
Pregnancy as a result of rape is extremely rare. A woman is only
fertile for 3-7 days during her cycle and the extreme physical and
psychological trauma of being raped makes it difficult for
fertilisation or implantation to occur.
Pregnancies as a result of rape therefore only account for a tiny
proportion of the hundreds of abortions carried out in Britain every
day. Abortion is not a 'solution' to rape. The experience cannot be
undone and should be responded to with compassion and support. For many
rape victims who find themselves pregnant, the biggest trauma is not
being pregnant but the memory of being raped. (Mahkorn and Dolan, Sexual Assault and Pregnancy: New Perspectives on Human Abortion, 1981.)
Abortion is itself a violent and invasive procedure. It should be
remembered that many women who are traumatised by abortion describe a
sense of having been violated. It is old-fashioned and socially
unacceptable to judge a child by his/her father's actions or to punish
a child for the crime of the father. A child may be conceived as the
result of rape but cannot be held responsible. Pam Stenzel and Julie
Makimaa were two such children.
- "My biological father is a rapist. But I am still a human being and I
still have value. My life isn't worth any less than yours because of
the way I was conceived. And I did not deserve the death penalty
because of the crime of my father." (Pam Stenzel, Straight talk from Pam Stenzel (1998) Vision Video Inc. PO Box 540, Worcester, Pennsylvania, 19490, USA)
- "It doesn't matter how I began. What matters is who I will become." (Julie Makimaa, http://www.afterabortion.org/rape.html)
Abortion providers are not primarily interested in abortion for rape victims but use them as a
smokescreen to cover up their real intentions. They want abortion to be
available to anyone, regardless of the circumstances. The use of rape
victims is exploitative and trivialises the terrible damage done to
women by rape. What makes rape a terrible crime is not the potential
for a woman to become pregnant but the reality that she has been
subjected to a violent and humiliating attack.
- "I, having lived through rape, and also having raised a child
'conceived in rape,' feel personally assaulted and insulted every time
I hear that abortion should be legal because of rape and incest. I feel
that we're being used by proabortionists to further the abortion issue,
even though we've not been asked to tell our side." (Kathleen DeZeeuw http://www.afterabortion.org/rape.html)
- Lisa was 16 when she was raped on her way home from school. When
she found out she was pregnant she was devastated, but said: "I had to
have the baby. He was just as much a victim as I was and I wasn't going
to make him suffer." However, when the baby was born, she rejected him
to start with because he resembled her attacker. "I couldn't look at
him. I didn't want to hold him. I told them to take him away."
Eventually, she came to love him and says: "It never ceases to amaze me
that something so precious and wonderful came from something so
terrible. He's my beautiful boy and I wouldn't change him for the
world." (The Sun, 21 January 2004)