Ian and Esther Brown
In 1985, when I experienced some very difficult personal problems, Ian, who had by then moved to Bolton in Lancashire, invited me to come and stay with him, Esther and Daniel, Mark and Samuel for a holiday. It was a precious time, and the whole family made me feel very welcome. There was always a feeling of such joy in the family, and we had a lot of fun together. I particularly remember playing snap with them all. Daniel would throw down his cards when there was any danger of someone losing, and, being unable to speak, would sign "we've all won" because he didn't want anyone to be disappointed at losing. That generosity of spirit was typical of the whole family.
Ian later decided to start training to be an Anglican vicar. As part of his training he was encouraged to do voluntary work, and he joined me in working for what was then the SPUC Handicap Division (now renamed No Less Human) in 1988. He intended to work with me for one year, but in fact stayed on until 1991, when Janet Thomas took over his role.
During the time that we were colleagues Ian and I worked closely together, and Ian organised several events including speakers' training courses and pro-life disability weeks. His energy and enthusiasm were always infectious, and he did wonderful work. Those of us who took part in the pro-life disability week in Liverpool in 1991 will never forget laughing until we cried when Ian related during a meal with the participants that he had once stuttered over the word "exterminated" when describing the plight of disabled babies. One of our members, Anne Dowson, responded that he wouldn't make a very good dalek!
Sadly, Ian's son Daniel died in 1994, and is much missed by all who knew and loved him. Ian and Esther were supported by their deep Christian faith, but Daniel's loss must have been so very hard for them both.
In more recent years Ian and Esther moved
to Dorset, relatively near to where I live, and it was lovely to be able to
spend more time with them both. In the
last two years Ian faced oesophageal cancer, and typically responded in an
exemplary way to his terminal diagnosis.
He died on 20th November 2005.
Ian called his son Daniel "a gentle prophet" for the pro-life movement. That is a fitting epitaph for Ian too.